Your Guide to Holiday Entertaining

The holiday season is upon us, and with it comes the joy of gathering with loved ones to celebrate, reflect, and create cherished memories. For many, hosting is a central part of the festivities—a chance to open your home, share delicious meals, and connect with the people who matter most. But let’s be honest: the role of host can also come with its fair share of stress. From planning the perfect menu and decorating your space to managing time and accommodating everyone’s preferences, the responsibilities can feel overwhelming. That is where we come in! As planners, we are here to help navigate the fun and stress, and everything in between, so you can tackle hosting with ease and excitement. That is, after all, what the holidays are all about.

So, grab a cup of your favorite seasonal beverage and let’s dive in. By the end of this guide, you’ll be ready to host a gathering that’s not only seamless and stylish but filled with joy, laughter, and all the warmth of the season. Here’s to making your holiday hosting experience as memorable as the moments you’ll share with your guests!

A beautifully set table is more than just plates and utensils—it’s an invitation to connect, share, and create memories. Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner party or a festive holiday gathering, the way you set your table sets the tone for the entire event. From classic elegance to modern minimalism, your table setting can reflect your personal style while making your guests feel special and appreciated.

But where do you start? From choosing the right dinnerware and glassware to layering in linens, centerpieces, and those all-important finishing touches, creating a cohesive and inviting table can feel like an art form. The good news is, it doesn’t have to be complicated. With a few thoughtful choices and creative ideas, you can transform your table into a stunning focal point that leaves a lasting impression.

We know that planning a holiday gathering can be expensive, but it doesn’t have to be! With a little creativity and a few DIY touches, you can create a festive atmosphere that’s both personal and memorable. From homemade decorations to budget-friendly appetizers and fun activities, there are endless ways to add your own unique flair to the celebration. Whether you're hosting an intimate gathering or a larger bash, these easy DIY ideas will help you transform your space and make your holiday party shine without the hassle. Let’s dive into some simple, yet effective ways to elevate your holiday festivities this season!

Holiday cocktails and mocktails are the perfect way to add some sparkle to your celebrations. From classic favorites like eggnog and spiked cider to inventive concoctions like a gingerbread martini or a cranberry mule, these festive drinks bring the spirit of the season to life. For those who prefer a non-alcoholic treat, mocktails like a peppermint hot chocolate or a pomegranate fizz offer a delicious way to join in the fun. With their vibrant colors, aromatic spices, and cozy flavors, holiday beverages set the tone for unforgettable moments with friends and family. Here, we are going to share some fun festive cocktail ideas as well as some easy and quick ways to enhance your cocktail experience for your guests. 

Full Recipes here: Cockails & Mocktails, and more.

We absolutely can’t forget about the beautifully crafted food that is sure to wow and impress your guests. It’s important that we put together a selection of delicious and beautifully presented options for your holiday menu that will leave a lasting impression. Snack boards are always a crowd-pleaser, as they offer an array of flavors and textures. They are also easy to make ahead of time, which means they’ll be ready to pop out and present just as your guests arrive, adding to the festive atmosphere of your event. This Easy and Deliciously Presentable Appetizer Garlic Herb Roasted Olives with Burrata is sure to be a hit. For the main event, we love the ease and presentation of a Turkey Roulade. It’s fool proof, never dry, and requires less time in the kitchen. Pair this main dish with sides like our favorite green bean casserole

Recipes can be found here: Charcuterie & Snack Plates 101, Easy and Deliciously Presentable Appetizer: Garlic Herb Roasted Olives with Burrata, Turkey Roulade, Green Bean Casserole,

The holiday season is a time to shine—literally and figuratively! And as a host, your outfit plays a big role in capturing the magic and mood of every celebration. Whether you love sequins and sparkle, classic elegance, or laid-back comfort, the right look can make you feel confident, festive, and ready for whatever the season brings.

In this section, we’re sharing our favorite holiday outfits, broken down by style to suit every occasion and vibe. Looking for chic ensembles that dazzle at formal gatherings? We’ve got you covered. Need something cozy but cute for a casual get-together? We have plenty of ideas for that too. And for those who want to blend comfort with a touch of glam, you’ll find inspiration to strike the perfect balance.

All of these outfits can be found here.

Wishing you and yours a truly wonderful and joyous holiday season filled with warmth, laughter, and cherished moments. Happy planning ahead!

Estate Yountville Wedding

Emily and Paul enlisted our assistance in choosing a venue, ultimately deciding on Estate Yountville for their wedding. The Pavilion at The Estate Yountville beautifully captured their vision of modern refined luxury infused with a romantic ambiance. Over the course of a year, we collaborated on planning their wedding, assembling a team of professionals to bring our design to life. Guests were treated to a three-day weekend of festivities in Yountville, with the wedding standing out as the main event.

Private Estate Wedding in Healdsburg, California

While there are many advantages to choosing a traditional venue for a wedding, there are so many reasons to love all that a private estate or family home has to offer as well. Intimacy, comfort, and not to mention the special memories. We loved working with Lauren and Walker on their private estate wedding last summer that brought family and friends together in a meaningful space to celebrate their love.

From the beginning Lauren had envisioned an outdoor celebration filled with beautiful florals and romantic textures throughout the design. Luckily, the private estate property that they hosted their wedding on had all of the beautifully landscaped features that would allow this vision to come to life, beginning with the ceremony on the lawn. Guests were seated in walnut folding chairs on either side of a cement walkway leading to the ceremony altar. Vanda Floral Designs created two breathtaking floral columns which would serve as the backdrop for Lauren and Walker’s vows. Loose greenery and shades of blush, mauve, and orange blooms filled the floral columns which also echoed the colorful bouquet that Lauren carried.

Cocktails and bite sized eats by Bay Laurel Culinary were held poolside while the reception would be held on the lush green lawn. The long family-style tables were placed beneath the shade of mature trees and bistro lights that were strung overhead for ambiance. Colorful floral centerpieces and blush linen napkins popped against the crisp white table linens and white distressed bistro chairs.

Our newlyweds received a warm welcome and cheers from their guests as they made their grand entrance from across the lawn! Meaningful toasts were shared in honor of Lauren and Walker and the rest of the reception was spent enjoying fine food and wine, and great company in the comfort of the beautiful private estate property.

Cheer to our newlyweds and thank you to our incredible vendor team for helping us bring together this truly magical summer day!

Planner/Designer: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Private Estate | Photography: Amanda Crean Photography | Catering: Bay Laurel Culinary | Florals: Vanda Floral Design | Wedding Cake: Moustache Baked Goods | Rentals: Bright Event Rentals Encore Events Rentals | Hair + Makeup: The Powder Room | DJ: King Most

Allison + Alex | Beltane Ranch

Last summer we had the pleasure of working with Allison + Alex on their whimsical wedding at Beltane Ranch. From the start, Allison knew that she would not have a lot of time to commit to planning her wedding. After being referred to us through a friend, we began working with Allison and Alex on achieving their dream wedding day while making the process efficient and effortless for them!

Like most modern brides, designs and inspiration were first gathered via a Pinterest board which soon became filled with soft neutral tones, whimsical draping, and beautifully displayed champagne flutes. With the help of our amazing creative partners and the beautiful backdrop of Beltane Ranch, Allison + Alex’s day went off without a hitch and was absolutely unforgettable!

Beneath the shade of ancient oak trees, Allison and Alex said “I do” in a beautiful ceremony that was officiated by Allison’s stepfather. Flowing white linens and strands of white poofs were delicately draped around the trunk of the tree that served at the backdrop to the ceremony site, setting the tone for the whimsical atmosphere that Allison had dreamed of. During the ceremony, the wedding party was seated with guests, allowing all eyes to be on the bride and groom as the two became husband and wife.

Following the ceremony, guests were treated to a beautiful cocktail hour on the lawn where comfortable vignettes, tray-passed hors d’oeuvres, and a fresh oyster bar by Hog Island Oyster Co awaited them. Guests then found their reception seating by way of champagne flutes displayed on Encore Events Rentals’ a-frame Drake Shelf, each glass accompanied by a name and table number. The reception that awaited was a truly stunning alfresco setting with a color palette of soft blush and creamy white, all set beneath the oak trees and strands of lights hung overhead.

Effortlessly elegant was the overall feel we were going for which was achieved through gorgeous florals designed by Hawthorn Flower Studio and tons of soft textures on the tabletops. Guest seating was a combination of wood farm tables with loose linen runners down the center and round tables draped in pale blush linens; all paired with wood bistro chairs with white cushions. Printed menus and a knotted linen napkin completed each setting in addition to gold flatware and crisp white china.

As the night wore on and the sun went down, the candles and lighting strung overhead began to glow and created the most romantic ambiance for the evening celebration. Heartfelt toasts were made, and Allison and Alex shared a memorable first dance as Lucky Devils Band played in the background. We feel so fortunate to have played a part in their happily ever after! Special thank you to Gretchen Gause for capturing every last detail of the day!

Planner + Designer: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Beltane Ranch | Catering: Ramekins | Photography: Gretchen Gause | Cinema: Denoise Studios | Ceremony/Reception Music: Lucky Devils Band | Florist: Loop Flowers | Desserts: Moustache Baked Goods | Oyster Bar: Hog Island Oyster Co | Transportation: Green Dream Tours | Hair + Makeup: Marisa Perel | Rentals + Lighting: Encore Events Rentals | Stationery: Everthine Designs Etsy | Bride's Attire: Alexandra Grecco , Valentino | Groom's Attire: Ralph Lauren, J Crew

Shop Local Gifting Guide

As one of our founding values, supporting our local community and small businesses is so important to us and this holiday season we have gathered a few of our favorite local artisans to share some wonderful gift ideas with you. Keep scrolling for a few of our favorites items - happy shopping!

MCEVOY RANCH

Tuscan Table Olive Set

At just $32, this Tuscan Table Olive Set from McEvoy Ranch is perfect for the olive lover in your life! The gift comes wrapped in cello and includes a 5.5oz jar of olives paired with a teak dish and picking fork.

Pro Tip: This is a great option as a host gift!

BEAM AND BRANCH

Handcrafted baskets and bowls

This husband and wife team make beautiful handcrafted and hand dyed baskets and bowls. With ring dishes starting at just $18, their range of products and price points make it easy to find something for anyone special that you’re looking to give a handcrafted gift to.

MARIGOLD APOTHECARY

Replenish Bath Soak

Using a blend of sea salt, Himalayan pink mineral salt, rose petals, and essential oils, this replenishing bath soak will invigorate the senses and promote proper movement of body fluids. A perfect gift for someone who could benefit from some self care!

PENNY ROYAL

Envelope Clutch

This beautiful 5x7 envelope clutch by Penny Royal comes in six beautiful colors and is made of veg leather that will patina and wear wonderfully with age.

MIND’S EYE DESIGN

Mired Metal Circle Earrings

Made of raw brass wire that has been partially oxidized, these gorgeous metal circle earrings hang 2’’ from the ear and can be worn for a casual day in Wine Country or a night on the town.

HAMILTON WORKS

Serving Boards

Using offcuts from various projects, Hamilton Works creates gorgeous handmade serving boards which helps ensure a zero-minimal waste ethic in their workshop. A great gift someone who loves to entertain!

Christy + Alex | Annadel Estate Winery

Christy and Alex grew up playing together as children and it wasn't until after college years that they decided they couldn't live without each other. With this in mind, we could not wait to plan their beautiful wedding day that would solidify their fairytale love story and also begin their new journey together as husband and wife!

Christy and Alex’s inspiration boards were filled with elements such as soft draping, pale blush accents, and beautiful leafy greens. Annadel Estate Winery proved to be the perfect wine country venue for their wedding with its historic ruins and bountiful foliage that we would would help create the ambiance they desired.

Rather than a traditional ceremony arch, Christy and Alex exchanged vows beneath a beautiful tree with a floral installation cascading down the trunk. The vibrant greenery and pale blush florals flowing down the tree was such a unique backdrop for the ceremony, which was sweet and romantic in every way.

Wanting to find a way to incorporate the couple’s beloved golden retriever in their day, the escort card table featured a beautiful dog topiary instructing guests to “fetch” their seats! A miniature figurine of a golden rested on each place card and gave guests something sweet and memorable to take home with them.

An intimate reception awaited the newlyweds and their guests in the courtyard of the Annadel ruins which provided a lush enclosed setting for the celebration. The walls of the ruins are covered in greens and create the feeling of a secret garden within the expansive property. With some romantic draping added to the two entrances of the courtyard and lighting strung overhead, the ambiance was undeniably magical! Loose textured floral centerpieces by Julie Stevens Design were paired with settings of white china and gold flatware with black handles.

Following dinner and toasts, the celebration continued at Annadel’s beautifully preserved barn where the newlyweds and their guests danced the night away, and even went home with customized hats in bright neon colors. At the end of the evening, Christy and Alex were sent off by their loved ones with a sea of streamers cascading over them as they walked by. An epic celebration for one epic love story!

Planning & Design: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Annadel Estate Winery | Catering: Elaine Bell Catering | Phototgraphy: The De Jauregui’s Photography | Videography: LoveSpun Films | Ceremony & Reception Music: Boutique DJs | Florist: Julie Stevens Design | Cake: Moustache Bakery | Transportation: Pure Luxury Transportation | Hair & Makeup: The Powder Room | Rentals & Lighting: Encore Events Rentals & Bright Event Rentals

Kaitlin & Jason | Chalk Hill Estate

Our inspiration for Kaitlin and Jason’s big day centered around modern elegance with pops of gold and luscious greens. The original design plan included images of cream flowers with eucalyptus, long farm tables with beautiful green garlands, a modern mirrored welcome sign, and gold dinner flatware.  Kaitlin expressed that she loved the look of wooden tables and floral table runners for the reception and we could not wait to bring all of these elements to life for their big day.

On a beautiful summer day in Sonoma wine country, Kaitlin and Jason said their “I do’s” in front of Chalk Hill Estate’s iconic overlook as beautiful hills and sweeping views framed the couple perfectly. A modern arch covered in greenery and crisp white florals by Julie Stevens Designs achieved the combination of modern and elegance in the most perfect way. 

For the reception, guests were instructed to find their seats via escort cards that were tucked into wine keys. The wine keys also doubled as wedding favors for their guests as each of them were custom engraved with the date of the wedding.  A perfect wine country wedding favor, if you ask us! Long farm tables were set up on the lawn at the ridge, under a “zig- zag” market light display, just as Kaitlin had envisioned. Long leafy runners ran down the length of the farm tables and sophisticated place settings of gold-rimmed china and gold flatware. 

After dinner and speeches, guests were shuttled down to the Pavilion for a night of dancing with Dick Bright Orchestra who rocked the night away.  Kaitlin’s younger sisters shared a surprise performance of ‘Stand By Me’ and invited the newlyweds to join her and the rest of the band on stage. It was a fun and memorable moment for all, including one that’ll stay with us! The Edges Wed Photography

Planning & Design: L’Relyea Events | Venue & Catering: Chalk Hill Estate Winery | Photography: The Edges Wed | Reception Entertainment: Dick Bright Orchestra | Florals: Julie Stevens Designs | Hair & Makeup: The Powder Room | Rentals: Encore Events Rentals | Linen: La Tavola Fine Linen | Stage & Lighting: Bright | Donuts: Harvey’s Donuts | Cigar Bar: Oye Productions | Bartenders: Bartenders Unlimited

Kelsey + Foster | Chateau St. Jean

Kelsey and Foster’s September wedding at Chateau St Jean brought family and friends together from all over the world. Naturally, the two wanted to create a special celebration that would incorporate their favorite things, some family history, and would reflect their personal styles in an effortless way. It was also important to let the old-world beauty and grandeur of Chateau St Jean set the tone for the wedding design which was kept elegant and complimentary of the surroundings.

From the ceremony filled with beautiful poufs of baby’s breath to the intimate al fresco reception on the lawn, we are so proud of the final product and loved watching Kelsey and Foster’s love radiating throughout the day!

Guests were greeted with champagne in the formal gardens before taking their seats for the ceremony. Following the ceremony, guests noshed on small bites and local wines in the Rose Garden while the family and bridal party took photos.

Dinner was set on the great lawn with the Chateau as the stunning back drop, accompanied with tables draped in gold linens with baby breath garlands and flooded with candle light. The evening continued with dancing and desserts (including the father of the brides family favorite, Milk Cake) before bidding a farewell to the Newlyweds.

We adored working with Kelsey and Foster and an incredible team of creatives to bring their wedding dreams to life at Chateau St Jean! See even more details featured recently on Ruffled Blog, here.

Planning & Design: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Chateau St. Jean | Catering: Park Avenue Catering | Photography: L. Hewitt Photography | Ceremony Music: Musical Heart Strings | Reception Music: Nor Cal Pro Sound | Florals: Papillon Floral Design | Transportation: Beau Wine Tours | Hair & Makeup: Wash & Brushup Co. | Rentals & Lighting: Encore Events Rentals & La Tavola Linens | Paper Goods: Jolly Edition | Calligraphy: Ettie Kim Studio | Bridal Gown: Romona Keveza | Veil & Hairpiece: twigs & honey

Leah + Mike | Tyge Williams Cellars

There’s nothing like wine country at the end of summertime! Last September we had the pleasure of planning Leah and Mike’s beautiful wedding set at the Barn at Tyge Williams Cellars in Sonoma and worked closely with the pair on their design inspiration. 

Early in the design discussions, Leah said, “I like the idea of long natural wood.” Keeping this in mind,  we collectively decided on an earthy, yet modern feel for their wedding. It was also decided early on we wanted to incorporate a pop of deep green throughout the design. Leah’s original Pinterest board included images of long farm wood tables with luscious long green garland, a beautiful wood arbor, bistro chairs, and a fabulous gold monogram display.  We LOVED her ideas and couldn’t wait to bring it all to life!

Guests flew in from all over the country to celebrate this sweet couple in Sonoma on their wedding day. The ceremony took place outdoors with sweeping views of the beautiful vineyards surrounding them. As Leah had envisioned, a wooden arbor covered in leafy greenery and lush florals framed their vows which was officiated by the couple’s mutual friend. After a few humorous stories, some vows, and a kiss, Leah and Mike were married! 

After the ceremony guests enjoyed tray passed champagne and canapés. Dinner was served on the lawn at long farm tables paired with elegant black chairs. Long flowing garland filled the center of the tabletops and place settings featured gold flatware and beautiful grey stoneware.  After dinner, guests made their way into the barn for dessert and dancing. The room was dressed with two beautiful green couches, candles and behind the bar, and gold monogram letters, “L + M” just like Leah’s original vision. 

It was a true honor to bring Leah and Mike’s vision to life at The Barn at Tyge Williams Cellars with an all-star team of creatives at our side!

Planning & Design: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Tyge Williams Cellars | Catering: Ramekins Culinary School | Photography: Mike Larson Photography | Cinema: Love Spun Films | Ceremony/ Reception Music: Golden State DJ | Donuts: Harvey’s Donuts | Floral: Valley Flora | Transportation: Pure Luxury | Hair and Makeup: Allie Beauty Salon | Rentals & Lighting: Encore Events Rentals | Stationary: Love Notes Paper

Sarah + Connie | Campovida

After touring several wineries with Sarah and Connie who are based in San Francisco, Campovida proved to be the perfect choice for the couple who wished to create a weekend escape for their family and friends. Campovida’s lush garden along with mountain and vineyard views would be the perfect backdrop for our couple who wanted to create a wedding that would marry their bohemian and modern styles in perfect balance. They settled on a fall wedding where moody florals and jewel-toned touches would reflect their wedding style choices.

Guests arrived into the garden pathway which leads down a road with views of vineyards, and mountains before they turned into the tunnel of gardens, marked with a personalized acrylic welcome sign that hung from the arbor. Guests were greeted with beverages and mingled while taking Polaroid photos and browsing through the photo guest book. Sarah and Connie’s ceremony took place under a canopy of grape vines and incorporated both of their cultures by way of a minimalist copper chuppah draped with soft white linen and the reading of a Chinese poem. The two were a vision of beauty and love as they exchanged vows which were officiated by their close friend.

Cocktails followed the ceremony in the middle of the gardens where we had cocktail tables set with grey printed linens that served as a modern element. Dinner was served in the circular garden surrounding a fountain with a magical canopy of wisteria growing overhead. Rich velvet linen in slate grey and moody autumnal florals by Hawthorne Flower Studio set the tone for the bold and romantic reception design. We added small touches of modern flair to accent and accentuate the stunning blooms by using acrylic etched table numbers, black and gold flatware, and muted mauve velvet napkins for the menus to be placed on. Each menu featured bold modern black text and a hand applied copper embellishment to tie in subtle gold accents. To end the night on a sweet note, dessert included four different types of sweets from locally sourced vendors which included a wedding cake, miniature pies, an ice cream bar, and beignets.

The evening was spent celebrating Sarah and Connie in the most beautiful way, and we are so grateful to have brought their dreamy wedding vision to life at Campovida!

Planning + Design: L’Relyea Events | Ceremony + Reception Venue: Campovida | Catering: Pascaline Fine Catering | Photography: Sebastien Bicard Photography | Ceremony + Reception Music: Boutique DJs | Florals: Hawthorne Flower Studio | Transportation: Pure Luxury | Rentals: Encore Event Rentals | Hair + Makeup: Pins & Curls

Lauren + Dell | Kunde Family Winery

After a fateful meeting in 2009 and a romantic Kauai proposal in 2016, Lauren and Dell knew they wanted a California wedding where they could show their East Coast families the beauty of Wine Country. Lauren and Dell first enlisted our help with Venue Scouting where we would spend an entire day together touring beautiful properties that fit the bill for their dream wedding day. Envisioning a refined and classic European Tea Party as the design inspiration, our last venue stop of the day, Kunde Family Winery, ended up being the perfect destination for their celebration. The secluded location of Boot Hill at Kunde Family Winery offers panoramic views of wine country, a spectacular grove of Valley Oaks, and we knew that this Sonoma Valley locale would serve as the perfect backdrop for our couple’s unforgettable reception.

Following their church ceremony at St Francis Solano Church in Sonoma, our beaming newlyweds and their guests gathered at Kunde for the cocktail hour and reception. With Lauren and Dell’s original vision in mind of dining beneath the stars with family and friends, we set the reception beneath 100+ year old Oak Trees that were strung with lighting, setting the mood for the romantic evening. With an elegant palette of champagne, cream, and touches of soft peach, Lauren and Dell’s refined style was reflected through the understated yet thoughtful decor details. Bianca with Studio Luzance created an elegant invitation suite and worked with us to pair stationery for the wedding day as well. We imagined delicate floral with sage green calligraphy for the menus, which were personalized for guests and doubled as seating assignments.

Lush garden blooms, champagne linens, and hemstitched napkins tied off with a hand dyed silk ribbon, and vintage-style flatware completed the tabletops. For our sweethearts, we created an intimate dining space for them under the arch of an Oak tree with a petite wood table and cream settee. We accented the sweetheart table with a lush garland that draped to the ground and tucked lush blooms of garden roses into it. The two would spend the evening here dining on the spectacular menu prepared by Ramekins Culinary School and laughing together through an evening of toasts.

The two ended the night dancing beneath the stars to their favorite band, Hip Service, surrounded by all of their family and friends. We could not have wished for a more perfect evening for such a lovely couple. Congratulations Lauren & Dell!

Planning and Design: L’Relyea Events | Ceremony Venue: St. Francis Solano Church | Reception Venue: Kunde Family Winery | Caterer: Ramekins Culinary School | Photography: Lori Paladino Photography | Reception Music: Hip Service | Florist: Valley Flora | Cinema: Love Spun Films | Cake and Dessert Bar: Moustache Bakery | Transportation: Beau Wine Tours | Hair and Makeup: The Powder Room | Rentals & Lighting: Encore Events Rentals

Jenny & Frank | Ramekins Culinary School

Amanda Crean Photography

Would you ever consider getting married at a culinary school? If it was Ramekins Culinary School in Sonoma, CA Wine Country you would in a heartbeat! With their impeccable style and service, combined with an intimate hospitality and world class cuisine- its a no-brainer. And it was just that for our lovely couple, Jenny and Frank who wed at the iconic Ramekins Culinary school right in the heart of Sonoma.  For this couple, Ramekins brought it all to the table with a stunning venue, outstanding culinary AND the prettiest and most delicious cake! This allowed us to focus on simple, refined, and timeless design elements to complement your bride and the venue. Ramekins provides a beautiful and romantic setting that is dynamic to accommodate any wedding style you can dream of, which makes it so fun for us to design.  The day started with a beautiful ceremony lead by Richard Meyer of Marry Me Wine Country. Jenny carried a gorgeous bouquet by Valley Flora. Shortly after the ceremony, guests enjoyed cocktail hour in a beautiful courtyard then escorted upstairs for dinner.  After dinner and toasts Frank and Jenny shared their first dance as a married couple, music provided by Boutique DJ's.  The rest of the night was spent celebrating and dancing with friends and family.  

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Amanda Crean Photography

Vendors: Planning and Design: L'Relyea Events | Venue/ Catering: Ramekins Culinary School | Ceremony/ Reception Music: Boutique DJs | Photography: Amanda Crean Photography | Florist: Valley Flora | Hair and Makeup: Whimsy 

Whitney + Jesse | Bodega Harbour Yacht Club

Amongst the tranquillity of the Sonoma Coast, with stunning 360-degree views of the ocean and the rolling Sonoma mountains, it’s easy to see why Whitney + Jesse chose the Bodega Harbour Yacht Club to exchange vows.  

Our bride wore a gorgeous white gown with a blush bow that tied around the back. The blush dress detail paired beautifully with the lush greenery and white florals that framed the wedding ceremony. The couple stood in front of their closest family and friends under a stunning arch of florals expertly crafted by Aimee Lomeli.

Following the ceremony, the celebration moved to the upper level of the Yacht Club where the reception took place. The room was filled with round tables draped in classic white linens, white chairs and gorgeous, bountiful white florals. Guests enjoyed a delicious dinner catered by Bluewater Bistro that was served on white china and silver flatware.

Guests danced the night away to tunes by the live band, Retro Jukebox Band, nibbled on donuts from the couple’s favorite donut shop, played Jenga and enjoyed the delicious and beautifully designed wedding cake by Patisserie Angelica.

We loved planning and designing such a wonderful day and we were lucky to be a part of all the beautiful moments. Thank you, Courtney Stockton for capturing each and every one!

Planner + Designer: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Bodega Harbor Links | Ceremony Officiant: Rebeca Geffert | Venue + Caterer: Bluewater Bistro | Photographer: Courtney Stockton | Reception Music: Retro Jukebox Band | Florist: Aimee Lomeli | Cake: Patisserie Angelica | Hair + Makeup: Whimsy Bridal | Rentals: Bright Event Rentals

Carolyn + Scott | Private Estate

There’s something special about planning a wedding on a private estate. The chance for our design team to truly do something unique is what we thrive on. Carolyn and Scott wanted the flexibility and the intimacy of a private venue and the low key vibe of a backyard wedding. Amongst beautiful greenery and rolling hills, it’s easy to see why our bride and groom found Scott’s home to be the best space for their mid-century modern inspired “I Do’s.”

Held in the backyard on the lawn, the ceremony was modern yet elegant with crisp white and bright yellow accents. Guests were seated on white Eames-style chairs for the backyard ceremony, and neutral stone vases held pale yellow florals and greenery.

Followed by the three cutest flower girls wearing flower crowns, Carolyn walked down the aisle wearing a modern gown, holding an overflowing bouquet of ferns and golden blooms designed by Hawthorn Flower Studio,  while Scott wore a custom navy linen suit with yellow accessories. Flanked by her bridesmaids wearing a variation of pastel blue dresses, Carolyn and Scott exchanged vows and became Mr. and Mrs.!

For cocktail hour, a delicious spread of meat and cheeses were served along with specialty cocktails from Libations. The signature cocktail for Carolyn and Scott was a smoky Manhattan and a Jalepeno-Cucumber collins with edible flowers.

The reception area was filled with long, wooden family style tables that were thoughtfully designed with white chargers topped with yellow napkins and silver flatware. Tropical style greenery served as centerpieces for each setting. A delectable dinner by Pixie and the Scout was served and beautiful toasts were given throughout the rest of dinner.

Guests enjoyed dancing the night away with Boutique DJs and sweet treats by Moustache Baked Goods . Special thank you to onelove Photography for capturing the best moments of the day and to all of the vendors who made this unique and beautiful day a success!

CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE: Groom’s family home, San Rafael | PHOTOGRAPHY: onelove Photography | PLANNER: L’Relyea Events | FLOWERS: Hawthorn Flower Studio | GOWN & VEIL: Sarah Seven | SHOES: Chocolate Schubar | ENGAGEMENT RING: Rebecca Overmann | WEDDING RINGS Bride: Rebecca Overmann; Groom: Greenwich St. Jewelers | JEWELRY Necklace: Anthropologie; Bracelet: Whitney Staiger | HAIR & MAKEUP: The Powder Room | BRIDESMAID DRESSES: Various | MENSWEAR Groom: Suitsupply; Accessories: The Tie Bar; Shoes: Frye | STATIONERY Invitations: Confetti Grey; Programs, Escort cards & Menus: L’Relyea Events RENTALS: Bright Event Rentals; Classic Party Rentals;  | CATERING: The Pixie and the Scout | BAR: Libations Unlimited | DESSERTS: Moustache Baked Goods | MUSIC: Boutique DJs | TRANSPORTATION: Chariot Shuttle Service | ACCOMMODATIONS: Clift Hotel

Janelle + Javon | Jacuzzi Family Vineyards

Its a special time to be included in your best friends wedding, but its extra special to get to help her plan her wedding! And, on a beautiful September day, Janelle and Javon exchanged vows that were 10 years in the making and it was so rewarding standing by their side as they did. Jacuzzi Family Vineyards. was the perfect setting for these two to say, “I do”.

Janelle walked down the aisle in a stunning white gown with gold details and her ladies accented her with gold art deco floor length dresses. Javon wore a suit with a white jacket and black details to compliment the bride beautifully. Standing in front of their closest family and friends, Janelle and Javon shared what was truly a special moment as they became husband and wife.

With the classic tuscan winery feel and a blend of Gatsby Glam we turned it into an elegant reception black and gold elements throughout. Classic candelabras donned each table wrapped with delicate ivy leaves lit up the room with a romantic glow. Table number doubled as Janelle and Javon’s favorite Italian destinations.

The dance party with Verducci Entertainment and everyone took advantage of the photo booth provided by JoySquad for the remainder of the night.

Thank you Lindsey Tatum for capturing every special moment between the beautiful bride and groom.

Planner + Designer: L’Relyea Events | Ceremony + Reception: Jacuzzi Family Vineyards | Catering: Park Avenue Catering | Ceremony Officiant: Pastor Rich | Photographer: Lindsey Tatum | Cinema: Wedding on Film | Ceremony + Reception Music: Verducci Entertainment | DJ: DJ E.T. Hazzard | Florist: Pedy’s Petals | Wedding Cake: Moustache Baked Goods | Hair: Angelica | Makeup: Nicole | Rentals: Bright Event Rentals

Julia + Galen | Villa Chanticleer

Julia and Galen exchanged vows on a beautiful Spring day at Villa Chanticleer in Healdsburg, accompanied by their closest family and friends. We are honored to have planned this special couple’s day, and to witness the wonderful love that surrounds them.  

Being a Spring wedding, we were able to incorporate bright colors and bold patterns throughout. Julia’s bridesmaids wore gorgeous halter dresses that featured pink floral patterns with a blue background. Each lovely lady carried a bouquet by Papillon Floral featuring cream, blush, and bright pink blooms, with ribbons cascading from the handles. Our bride walked down the aisle in a breathtaking gown with a high neckline and plunging back - a gold leaf head piece on one side of her hair was the perfect and only accessory needed to complete her attire.

Their outdoor ceremony took place at Villa Chanticleer’s beautiful gazebo, surrounded by manicured lawns and towering pines. Simple yet elegant white fabric was draped across the front of the gazebo with floral details at each corner, framing the ceremony site with an elegant touch.

Following the ceremony, guests were directed indoors to the reception area, where they were greeted by a beautiful ombre board, which displayed a beautiful fade from magenta pink to sky blue, directing guests to their seats. The room its itself was framed with falling white drapes, and filled with round tables of eight draped in white linens, and topped with gorgeous blooms of pink, orange, cream and green tones. The bridal party sat at a long family style table topped with a floral table garland. The sweetheart seats were simply decorated with Mr. and Mrs. with pink bows tied around.

Guests enjoyed dancing a night of celebrating the newlyweds by dancing the night away to tunes from DJ E.T. Hazzard. Special thank you to Brooke Beasley for capturing the special moments of this day!

Planner: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Villa Chanticleer | Catering: Park Avenue | Photography: Brooke Beasley Photography | Cinema: Spencer Sarson Visuals | DJ: Verducci Event Productions - DJ E.T. Hazzard | Florals: Papillon Floral | Hair & Makeup: The Powder Room | Rentals: Encore Events Rentals

Caitie + Alex | Geyserville Inn

In the Heart of Alexander Valley, nestled between mountains and vineyards, you’ll discover Geyserville Inn. With spacious grounds and a serene ambiance, it was the perfect destination for our bride and groom’s laid and gorgeous wedding. Caitie and Alex desired these elements so we were elated to plan and design their spirited summer nuptials at this stunning venue!

Flanked by bridesmaids in sapphire gowns and groomsmen in black suits, our bride and groom exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony under a intimately decorated pergola.  With the rolling hills and lush vineyards spreading out into the distance behind them, it truly was a special moment.

For cocktail hour, we wanted to make the most of the space the property allowed. We placed lounge furniture for guests to grab drinks, enjoy appetizers, mingle and explore the beauty of the property.

We wanted to preserve the stunning beauty and natural surroundings the venue offered, so neutral tones with gold accents were utilised for the reception. The bridal party, including Caitie and Alex sat at a long family style table, while guests dined at round tables of 8.  Gorgeous stunning flora centerpieces by Fleuressence were in hues of cream, soft pink, deep magenta and lush greenery.  

Guests danced the night away to tunes played by AMS. An elegant four layered cake for guests to enjoy completed the evening's festivities while Sarah Marcella beautifully captured all of our favorite moments. We are so happy we were able to be part of Caitie and Alex's special day. Thank you to the entire team for making this possible!

Planner + Designer: L’Relyea Events | Venue: Geyserville Inn | Catering: Geyserville Inn | Photographer: Sarah Marcella | Cinema: Sean Desmond | Music: AMS | Florist: Fleuressence | Transportation: Pure Luxury Transportation | Hair + Makeup: Brush Salon | Rentals + Lighting: Encore

Valerie + Paul | Farmstead Long Meadow Ranch

Located in the heart of wine country, surrounded by vineyards and lush greenery, you'll find Farmstead at Long Meadow Ranch. We can't say enough about Farmstead’s natural beauty and spacious areas. Needless to say, we were thrilled to have planned and designed this unforgettable fete!

Our bride and groom exchange vows in an intimate ceremony under a pergola covered in beautiful flowering vines.  Our beaming bride walked down the aisle in a modern white gown while her groom awaited in a grey suit and light green tie. Valerie and Paul opted to get married without bridesmaids and groomsmen, so all eyes were truly on them.  

The reception that followed took place on the Farmstead lawn where guests were treated to fresh cocktails, games and delicious tray passed appetizers. Long, family style tables were draped in cream colored linens and succulents and florals provided by Letita “Tish” Martin in green, yellow and deep purple tones.  Farmstead provided a fresh and delicious menu for guests to enjoy. It truly looked as good as it tasted!

Guests enjoyed an evening of celebrating Valerie and Paul with heartfelt toasts, s’mores as a lovely dessert and wonderful tunes by Brian Bergeron.  As the sun went down, the fire pits were lit and lights hung over the reception area that created an intimate ambiance for the summer celebration.

Thank you to our amazing creative team for bringing Valerie and Paul's wedding vision to life! And thanks to Rubin Weddings for capturing the beauty of the day!

Planner: L’Relyea Events | Venue + Caterer: Farmstead | Ceremony Officiant: Lynn Keller | Photographer: Rubin Weddings | Music: Brian Bergeron | Florist: Letita “Tish” Martin |  Hair + Makeup: Sarah Jordan + Nikol Elaine